The Sacrifices I Make For My Children. At Least At Nap Time.

By Alex Iwashyna, blogger at Late Enough My daughter didn’t sleep well for most of our spring break. I also coughed for the entire week like a smoker started a poker tournament in my lungs. And it all came to a head Friday afternoon: I’m trying to put N to sleep at my mom’s house. [...]




A Richmond Mom on Down to Earth Parenting

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I used to consider myself an environmental activist: arranging letter-writing campaigns in college, volunteering in the Ecuadorian rainforest, and raising donations totally nearly $20,000 for the Bilsa Biological Reserve, where I served. But after my children were born my efforts were limited to dirty dishes, dirty laundry, and dirty diapers. Then, I watched the documentary [...]




Oh great, I’m on vacation with a ghost named Kate.

The "ghost"--lovely Kate Morgan at the Hotel del Coronado, where I'm staying.

I sure know how to pick ‘em. We’re staying at the lovely Hotel del Coronado in San Diego for a few days so a kidless walk through this 130+ year-old historical beauty’s gift shop yesterday was like a breath of fresh air. Marilyn Monroe vacationed here, and filmed Some Like it Hot on these very grounds. [...]




A Richmond Mom on her Mr. Mom

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This year, under the Christmas tree, there was a huge box with my name on it.  I couldn’t imagine what was in it. My husband claimed, “It’s something you’ve always wanted.”  Still no idea.  When I opened the flat-screen television, complete with DVD player, I wondered if this was one of those presents you buy [...]




Getting Fit, Quitter’s Style

By Alex Iwashyna, blogger at Late Enough Richmondmom.com has been posting a series on getting in-shape, which as a doctor, I am all for. Of course, I quit medicine so I thought that I would share some of my best fitness plans for moms who quit things. Running! Sign up for the Monument Ave 10K. [...]




Three babies in three weeks? Yes, I did it. Help me.

Yeah, it's kinda like this in April in our house.

When the doctor estimated the due date as early April, I winced. “Are you sure you can’t take her a little early, say end of March?” I pleaded. “Sorry, Kate, you know the drill, only a few days before the due date and we’ll schedule your c-section.” Well of course I knew the drill. This [...]




Who Are You and What Have You Done With the Real Me?

I once heard someone say that raising children was like being pecked to death by chickens, and although that could be true, at times I really think it is more like basking in the glow of a sunny day, eyes closed and relaxing while the wind gently blows across your face, just before a Mac [...]




A Richmond Mom on Creative Play

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Capes.  Sombreros.  Tutus.  My daughter’s closet has always been filled with an assortment of politically-correct costumes.  One minute she’s a fairy, the next a knight.  But when my daughter declared herself a boy, my belief in creative play was tested. My daughter’s obsession with the opposite sex began innocently enough with an intense adoration for [...]




Why we need to know about sexting

One year ago, this love triangle was revealed involving sexting. But it's happening much closer to home.

Reading yesterday’s post about sexting in the The New York Times scared the hell out of me. I knew that it went on with kids, and that some kids had really gotten hurt by it, but it really hit home when I realized that my son will turn nine next month. And #1 on top [...]




A Richmond Mom’s quest to Befriend 40

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In October, I’ll be forty years old. I realize, in the grand scheme of things, this is no big deal, but it feels monumental. When I was young, forty always seemed so old and accomplished. Now that I’m staring forty in the face I don’t feel either. So for the last six months I’ve been [...]