by Cheryl Lage, a Real Richmond Multiples Mom. Read her Blog and follow her on Twitter: Twinfatuation
May just happens to be “Mom’s Free” month at Master Cho’s World Class Tae Kwon Do.
Sure, I’d watched the kids dutifully learning their moves—developing the consummately parent-pleasing trifecta of brain focus, eye focus and body focus. Truth told, I could use a bit more focus…so why not?
With my complimentary doe-bo* donned (*that’s tae kwon do uniform for the uninitiated), I marched myself out to a marker on the mat—flanked by my naively proud duo.
The precision and focus required for exercises that to all appearances look simple was astounding. To see the Lilliputian population able to perfect their form and simultaneously accompany their efforts with impressive, mandated vocalization was humbling indeed.
Assuming horse riding stance (you can imagine it—involves standing with legs bent and akimbo—as if astride an invisible pony—for prolonged periods, maybe 2-3 tiring minutes at a time) while I attempted to perform punches with precision accuracy had me feeling the-Jillian Michaels-is-a-complete-poseur burn for days.
At session’s end, Master Cho–with tremendous kindness (and undoubtedly a generous portion of sublimated amusement)–stood before the trio of flushed and overheated mamas. He shared with us the philosophy behind the practice, the wisdom of Eastern thought: everything is a balance. Unlike most Western belief systems, you act based on your gut, not your brain.
When one area is weak, you unapologetically focus greater energy upon that area, but unflaggingly maintain the other.
Sounds an awful lot like twin parenting to me—comparably exhausting, but seemingly, with comparable reward.
The exultant mom of elementary school-aged boy/girl twins, Darren and Sarah, Cheryl Lage is a loving wife to her dreamy husband Scott, a part-time post-producer at the Martin Agency, a freelance writer and the author of the bestselling book, Twinspiration: Real-Life Advice from Pregnancy through the First Year (Taylor Trade, c. 2006). Feel free to read their family exploits at Twinfatuation.com.
